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Author: Susan Berger, MFT

This author has written 29 articles

Asian Americans And Affairs

  • Post published:April 29, 2023
  • Post category:About Affairs/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

Over the years I have helped many Asian American couples heal from affairs. Many of the couples involved have been first or second generation Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese or South Korean.…

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Healing After Infidelity: The Importance Of Finding Meaning In An Affair

  • Post published:July 5, 2019
  • Post category:About Affairs

When couples get stuck trying to emerge from the emotional devastation of an affair, it feels awful. The same hurtful arguments are repeated over and over, resulting in scabs yet…

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Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?

  • Post published:September 9, 2018
  • Post category:If Your Partner is Having an Affair

Obsessing over a partner’s infidelity is a natural response to the trauma of discovery.  Most individuals find themselves unable, at times, to stop turning over in their minds the lies,…

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How Do Affairs Affect Children? Part I

  • Post published:September 6, 2018
  • Post category:Uncategorized

In this post I will address how children are impacted by their parent’s affairs. In subsequent posts I will discuss the effects on adult children of affairs and offer suggestions…

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About Conversations That Heal Affairs Part I

  • Post published:August 5, 2017
  • Post category:Uncategorized

“We have the same conversations over and over.  She gets triggered and tells me about it.  She’s in a great deal of pain.  I listen and tell her I’m sorry.…

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Why “Being Good” Won’t Heal Your Affair

  • Post published:July 7, 2017
  • Post category:About Affairs

I don’t know why she can’t get over this. I ended the affair, have been spending much more time at home, doing more around the house, paying more attention to…

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Heading Towards An Affair?

  • Post published:May 29, 2017
  • Post category:If You Are Having An Affair

Of all of the people who show up for therapy struggling with some aspect of an affair, those in the infatuation, pre-affair (or maybe emotional affair) stage are the least likely…

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Susan Berger

Marriage and Family Therapist

Recent Posts

  • What Happens To The Brain During An Affair?
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  • Asian Americans And Affairs
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  • Healing After Infidelity: The Importance Of Finding Meaning In An Affair
    July 5, 2019/
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  • Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?
    September 9, 2018/
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  • How Do Affairs Affect Children? Part I
    September 6, 2018/
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  • About Conversations That Heal Affairs Part I
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