Asian Americans And Affairs
Over the years I have helped many Asian American couples heal from affairs. Many of the couples involved have been first or second generation Chinese,…
Healing After Infidelity: The Importance Of Finding Meaning In An Affair
When couples get stuck trying to emerge from the emotional devastation of an affair, it feels awful. The same hurtful arguments are repeated over and…
Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?
Obsessing over a partner’s infidelity is a natural response to the trauma of discovery. Most individuals find themselves unable, at times, to stop turning over…
How Do Affairs Affect Children? Part I
In this post I will address how children are impacted by their parent’s affairs. In subsequent posts I will discuss the effects on adult children…
About Conversations That Heal Affairs Part I
“We have the same conversations over and over. She gets triggered and tells me about it. She’s in a great deal of pain. I listen…
Why “Being Good” Won’t Heal Your Affair
I don’t know why she can’t get over this. I ended the affair, have been spending much more time at home, doing more around the…
Heading Towards An Affair?
Of all of the people who show up for therapy struggling with some aspect of an affair, those in the infatuation, pre-affair (or maybe emotional affair)…