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Asian Americans And Affairs

  • Post published:April 29, 2023
  • Post category:About Affairs/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

Over the years I have helped many Asian American couples heal from affairs. Many of the couples involved have been first or second generation Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese or South Korean.…

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Healing After Infidelity: The Importance Of Finding Meaning In An Affair

  • Post published:July 5, 2019
  • Post category:About Affairs

When couples get stuck trying to emerge from the emotional devastation of an affair, it feels awful. The same hurtful arguments are repeated over and over, resulting in scabs yet…

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Why “Being Good” Won’t Heal Your Affair

  • Post published:July 7, 2017
  • Post category:About Affairs

I don’t know why she can’t get over this. I ended the affair, have been spending much more time at home, doing more around the house, paying more attention to…

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Difficulties Couples Encounter Trying To Heal From An Affair

  • Post published:December 29, 2016
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The revelation of an affair is frequently a shocking experience. In long-term relationships the fidelity of one’s partner is, more often than not, taken for granted, providing an emotional foundation…

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Rebuilding Real, Deep Trust After The Affair

  • Post published:September 29, 2015
  • Post category:About Affairs/If You Are Having An Affair/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

“How can I ever trust you again?” “How could I have ever trusted you?”“Trust me, this will never happen again.” “How can I win back your trust?” The sudden loss…

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“Mad Men” In Affairs

  • Post published:November 29, 2013
  • Post category:About Affairs/If You Are Having An Affair/If You are the Other Woman/Man/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

“Men weren’t really the enemy – – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill”  …

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What Type Of Affair Is This?

  • Post published:November 29, 2013
  • Post category:About Affairs/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

During the traumatic throes of the discovery of an affair, finding the right label, and therefore, singular explanation may feel like a life preserver. As you read through books and…

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Susan Berger

Marriage and Family Therapist

Recent Posts

  • What Happens To The Brain During An Affair?
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  • Asian Americans And Affairs
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  • Healing After Infidelity: The Importance Of Finding Meaning In An Affair
    July 5, 2019/
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  • Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?
    September 9, 2018/
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  • How Do Affairs Affect Children? Part I
    September 6, 2018/
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  • About Conversations That Heal Affairs Part I
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