Asian Americans And Affairs
Over the years I have helped many Asian American couples heal from affairs. Many of the couples involved have been first or second generation Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese or South Korean.…
Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?
Obsessing over a partner’s infidelity is a natural response to the trauma of discovery. Most individuals find themselves unable, at times, to stop turning over in their minds the lies,…
What Happens To The Brain During An Affair?
Affairs in film and television series are often portrayed as exciting adventures, fun and mischievous; a way of breaking free from oppression… a conduit to a joyful existence. Embarking on…
Rebuilding Real, Deep Trust After The Affair
“How can I ever trust you again?” “How could I have ever trusted you?”“Trust me, this will never happen again.” “How can I win back your trust?” The sudden loss…
Why Can’t I Get Over My Partner’s Affair?
By “getting over” I don’t mean forgetting about it, or somehow making it okay. But I am writing to you if you find yourself consumed by pain and anger and…
Sex After The Affair
The revelation of infidelity can bring great emotional upheaval; everything suddenly feeling upside down and inside out. The relationship can feel shattered. Yet, in spite of this, sometimes hope for…
How Can I Stop Obsessing Over The Affair?
In order to help yourself when you can’t stop thinking about the affair, it is important to understand the different functions obsessing can serve in your healing process. My first and most…