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Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?

  • Post published:September 9, 2018
  • Post category:If Your Partner is Having an Affair

Obsessing over a partner’s infidelity is a natural response to the trauma of discovery.  Most individuals find themselves unable, at times, to stop turning over in their minds the lies,…

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Heading Towards An Affair?

  • Post published:May 29, 2017
  • Post category:If You Are Having An Affair

Of all of the people who show up for therapy struggling with some aspect of an affair, those in the infatuation, pre-affair (or maybe emotional affair) stage are the least likely…

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Difficulties Couples Encounter Trying To Heal From An Affair

  • Post published:December 29, 2016
  • Post category:About Affairs

The revelation of an affair is frequently a shocking experience. In long-term relationships the fidelity of one’s partner is, more often than not, taken for granted, providing an emotional foundation…

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The Seven “R’s” Of Healing An Affair

  • Post published:January 29, 2014
  • Post category:If You Are Having An Affair

You might be surprised  at how upset your partner is about your affair.    The amount of rage directed at you can be overwhelming.   Your spouse’s depression and withdrawal may be…

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How Can I Stop Obsessing Over The Affair?

  • Post published:January 29, 2014
  • Post category:If Your Partner is Having an Affair

In order to help yourself when you can’t stop thinking about the affair, it is important to understand the different functions obsessing can serve in your healing process. My first and most…

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“How Can I Believe Him When He Says He’s Not Having An Affair?”

  • Post published:December 29, 2013
  • Post category:If Your Partner is Having an Affair

It can be completely crazy-making to feel like you cannot get at the truth. Something doesn’t feel right between the two of you, he’s not around as much as he…

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What Type Of Affair Is This?

  • Post published:November 29, 2013
  • Post category:About Affairs/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

During the traumatic throes of the discovery of an affair, finding the right label, and therefore, singular explanation may feel like a life preserver. As you read through books and…

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Susan Berger

Marriage and Family Therapist

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