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Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?

  • Post published:September 9, 2018
  • Post category:If Your Partner is Having an Affair

Obsessing over a partner’s infidelity is a natural response to the trauma of discovery.  Most individuals find themselves unable, at times, to stop turning over in their minds the lies,…

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How Do Affairs Affect Children? Part I

  • Post published:September 6, 2018
  • Post category:Uncategorized

In this post I will address how children are impacted by their parent’s affairs. In subsequent posts I will discuss the effects on adult children of affairs and offer suggestions…

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“Mad Men” In Affairs

  • Post published:November 29, 2013
  • Post category:About Affairs/If You Are Having An Affair/If You are the Other Woman/Man/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

“Men weren’t really the enemy – – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill”  …

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What Type Of Affair Is This?

  • Post published:November 29, 2013
  • Post category:About Affairs/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

During the traumatic throes of the discovery of an affair, finding the right label, and therefore, singular explanation may feel like a life preserver. As you read through books and…

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How Do Affairs Affect Children? (Part II): Should We Tell Our Children?

  • Post published:February 2, 2009
  • Post category:About Affairs

Your Role as Parents No matter how devastated you are, you are still faced with the task of keeping it together for the children. This can be a double-edged sword.…

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Can Relationships That Start As Affairs Succeed?

  • Post published:February 29, 2008
  • Post category:About Affairs

I came across an interesting statistic recently; 25% of relationships that start as affairs succeed. “Succeed” is defined as the couple staying together, rather than by the quality of the…

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I Just Found Out My Partner Is Having An Affair!

  • Post published:October 6, 2007
  • Post category:Can Therapy Help?/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

You are probably in shock.   You might feel as if the floor has opened up under you. Suddenly, there is an emergency and a strong need to take some…

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Susan Berger

Marriage and Family Therapist

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