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Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?

  • Post published:September 9, 2018
  • Post category:If Your Partner is Having an Affair

Obsessing over a partner’s infidelity is a natural response to the trauma of discovery.  Most individuals find themselves unable, at times, to stop turning over in their minds the lies,…

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How Do Affairs Affect Children? Part I

  • Post published:September 6, 2018
  • Post category:Uncategorized

In this post I will address how children are impacted by their parent’s affairs. In subsequent posts I will discuss the effects on adult children of affairs and offer suggestions…

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How Can I Stop Obsessing Over The Affair?

  • Post published:January 29, 2014
  • Post category:If Your Partner is Having an Affair

In order to help yourself when you can’t stop thinking about the affair, it is important to understand the different functions obsessing can serve in your healing process. My first and most…

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“Mad Men” In Affairs

  • Post published:November 29, 2013
  • Post category:About Affairs/If You Are Having An Affair/If You are the Other Woman/Man/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

“Men weren’t really the enemy – – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill”  …

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How Do Affairs Affect Children? (Part II): Should We Tell Our Children?

  • Post published:February 2, 2009
  • Post category:About Affairs

Your Role as Parents No matter how devastated you are, you are still faced with the task of keeping it together for the children. This can be a double-edged sword.…

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The Other Woman (Or Man) – A Paradoxical Experience

  • Post published:July 5, 2008
  • Post category:Can Therapy Help?/If You are the Other Woman/Man

If you are involved with a married person and reading this, chances are that you have already gone through the initial stage of infatuation and blinding bliss.  In this initial…

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Can Relationships That Start As Affairs Succeed?

  • Post published:February 29, 2008
  • Post category:About Affairs

I came across an interesting statistic recently; 25% of relationships that start as affairs succeed. “Succeed” is defined as the couple staying together, rather than by the quality of the…

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Susan Berger

Marriage and Family Therapist

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