Skip to content
  • 925.948.0562
  • therapy@susanberger.net
  • 1415 Oakland Blvd, Ste. 100 Walnut Creek, CA 94596
About Affairs
  • Home
  • Get Help
    • Counseling for Couples Healing From an Affair
    • Individual Therapy For the Discoverer of the Affair
    • Couples Counseling for Relationships that Started as Affairs
    • Therapy For Individuals Who Are Having an Affair
    • Therapy For The Other Person (The Third)
    • Therapy For Adult Children Of Affairs
  • Articles
  • Links
  • About
  • Contact
  • Home
  • Get Help
    • Counseling for Couples Healing From an Affair
    • Individual Therapy For the Discoverer of the Affair
    • Couples Counseling for Relationships that Started as Affairs
    • Therapy For Individuals Who Are Having an Affair
    • Therapy For The Other Person (The Third)
    • Therapy For Adult Children Of Affairs
  • Articles
  • Links
  • About
  • Contact
  • 925.948.0562
  • therapy@susanberger.net
  • 1415 Oakland Blvd, Ste. 100 Walnut Creek, CA 94596

love

Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?

  • Post published:September 9, 2018
  • Post category:If Your Partner is Having an Affair

Obsessing over a partner’s infidelity is a natural response to the trauma of discovery.  Most individuals find themselves unable, at times, to stop turning over in their minds the lies,…

Continue ReadingWhy Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?

How Do Affairs Affect Children? Part I

  • Post published:September 6, 2018
  • Post category:Uncategorized

In this post I will address how children are impacted by their parent’s affairs. In subsequent posts I will discuss the effects on adult children of affairs and offer suggestions…

Continue ReadingHow Do Affairs Affect Children? Part I

The Seven “R’s” Of Healing An Affair

  • Post published:January 29, 2014
  • Post category:If You Are Having An Affair

You might be surprised  at how upset your partner is about your affair.    The amount of rage directed at you can be overwhelming.   Your spouse’s depression and withdrawal may be…

Continue ReadingThe Seven “R’s” Of Healing An Affair

“How Can I Believe Him When He Says He’s Not Having An Affair?”

  • Post published:December 29, 2013
  • Post category:If Your Partner is Having an Affair

It can be completely crazy-making to feel like you cannot get at the truth. Something doesn’t feel right between the two of you, he’s not around as much as he…

Continue Reading“How Can I Believe Him When He Says He’s Not Having An Affair?”

What Type Of Affair Is This?

  • Post published:November 29, 2013
  • Post category:About Affairs/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

During the traumatic throes of the discovery of an affair, finding the right label, and therefore, singular explanation may feel like a life preserver. As you read through books and…

Continue ReadingWhat Type Of Affair Is This?

How Do Affairs Affect Children? (Part II): Should We Tell Our Children?

  • Post published:February 2, 2009
  • Post category:About Affairs

Your Role as Parents No matter how devastated you are, you are still faced with the task of keeping it together for the children. This can be a double-edged sword.…

Continue ReadingHow Do Affairs Affect Children? (Part II): Should We Tell Our Children?

Can Relationships That Start As Affairs Succeed?

  • Post published:February 29, 2008
  • Post category:About Affairs

I came across an interesting statistic recently; 25% of relationships that start as affairs succeed. “Succeed” is defined as the couple staying together, rather than by the quality of the…

Continue ReadingCan Relationships That Start As Affairs Succeed?
  • 1
  • 2
  • Go to the next page

Susan Berger

Marriage and Family Therapist

Recent Posts

  • What Happens To The Brain During An Affair?
    March 5, 2016/
    0 Comments
  • Asian Americans And Affairs
    April 29, 2023/
    0 Comments
  • Healing After Infidelity: The Importance Of Finding Meaning In An Affair
    July 5, 2019/
    0 Comments
  • Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over The Affair?
    September 9, 2018/
    0 Comments
  • How Do Affairs Affect Children? Part I
    September 6, 2018/
    0 Comments
  • About Conversations That Heal Affairs Part I
    August 5, 2017/
    0 Comments
Copyright 2025 - About Affairs | Privacy Policy | site by bizdetail
Skip to content
Open toolbar Accessibility Tools

Accessibility Tools

  • Increase TextIncrease Text
  • Decrease TextDecrease Text
  • GrayscaleGrayscale
  • High ContrastHigh Contrast
  • Negative ContrastNegative Contrast
  • Light BackgroundLight Background
  • Links UnderlineLinks Underline
  • Readable FontReadable Font
  • Reset Reset