Emotional affair? I thought affairs meant extramarital sex!
He tells me they’re just friends. Am I wrong to be concerned?
Can’t I have friends of the opposite sex?
Isn’t it better to give them a long leash?
Emotional affairs have become a hot topic in the last several years, resulting in much needed clarity for some and complete confusion for others. Conflicts arise in couples where one person’s friendship with someone else leaves their partner feeling neglected and angry, but also confused and uncertain about how to respond. “After all, they’re just business associates having lunch. I shouldn’t be so possessive.” In the U.S., jealousy is frequently seen as a negative character trait. This leads many to try to deny the experience of jealousy even when there might be good reason. (more…)