Why Do I Keep Obsessing Over the Affair?
Obsessing over a partner’s infidelity is a natural response to the trauma of discovery. Most individuals find themselves unable, at times, to stop turning over in their minds the lies, snippets of conversation, unanswered questions and things that never added up. Re-visualizing the same devastating images of the affair couple together is also very common. Although this can be agonizing it is actually part of the healing process that will probably go on for some time. It might feel strange…