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Author: Susan Berger, MFT

This author has written 29 articles

What Is An Emotional Affair?

  • Post published:May 5, 2009
  • Post category:About Affairs

Emotional affair? I thought affairs meant extramarital sex! He tells me they’re just friends. Am I wrong to be concerned? Can’t I have friends of the opposite sex? Isn’t it…

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How Do Affairs Affect Children Part III: Infants and Toddlers

  • Post published:March 2, 2009
  • Post category:About Affairs

This is the third in a series of posts addressing children and affairs. In Part I, I described the effects affairs can have on children; in Part II, I addressed…

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How Do Affairs Affect Children? (Part II): Should We Tell Our Children?

  • Post published:February 2, 2009
  • Post category:About Affairs

Your Role as Parents No matter how devastated you are, you are still faced with the task of keeping it together for the children. This can be a double-edged sword.…

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The Other Woman (Or Man) – A Paradoxical Experience

  • Post published:July 5, 2008
  • Post category:Can Therapy Help?/If You are the Other Woman/Man

If you are involved with a married person and reading this, chances are that you have already gone through the initial stage of infatuation and blinding bliss.  In this initial…

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Can Relationships That Start As Affairs Succeed?

  • Post published:February 29, 2008
  • Post category:About Affairs

I came across an interesting statistic recently; 25% of relationships that start as affairs succeed. “Succeed” is defined as the couple staying together, rather than by the quality of the…

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I Just Found Out My Partner Is Having An Affair!

  • Post published:October 6, 2007
  • Post category:Can Therapy Help?/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

You are probably in shock.   You might feel as if the floor has opened up under you. Suddenly, there is an emergency and a strong need to take some…

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Should I Tell My Partner About The Affair?

  • Post published:October 5, 2007
  • Post category:If You Are Having An Affair

Most likely if you are reading this you have been struggling with whether to tell your partner for a while. It’s natural to feel paralyzed, and unable to think deeply…

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Susan Berger

Marriage and Family Therapist

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