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If You Are Having An Affair

Heading Towards An Affair?

  • Post published:May 29, 2017
  • Post category:If You Are Having An Affair

Of all of the people who show up for therapy struggling with some aspect of an affair, those in the infatuation, pre-affair (or maybe emotional affair) stage are the least likely…

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What Happens To The Brain During An Affair?

  • Post published:March 5, 2016
  • Post category:If You Are Having An Affair/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

Affairs in film and television series are often portrayed as exciting adventures, fun and mischievous; a way of breaking free from oppression… a conduit to a joyful existence. Embarking on…

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Rebuilding Real, Deep Trust After The Affair

  • Post published:September 29, 2015
  • Post category:About Affairs/If You Are Having An Affair/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

“How can I ever trust you again?” “How could I have ever trusted you?”“Trust me, this will never happen again.” “How can I win back your trust?” The sudden loss…

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The Seven “R’s” Of Healing An Affair

  • Post published:January 29, 2014
  • Post category:If You Are Having An Affair

You might be surprised  at how upset your partner is about your affair.    The amount of rage directed at you can be overwhelming.   Your spouse’s depression and withdrawal may be…

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“Mad Men” In Affairs

  • Post published:November 29, 2013
  • Post category:About Affairs/If You Are Having An Affair/If You are the Other Woman/Man/If Your Partner is Having an Affair

“Men weren’t really the enemy – – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill”  …

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Children Of Affairs

  • Post published:September 29, 2013
  • Post category:About Affairs/If You Are Having An Affair/If You are the Other Woman/Man

Some time ago I received a call from the Dr. Phil Show wanting to know if had any information about children of affairs. I did some research and was shocked…

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Should I Tell My Partner About The Affair?

  • Post published:October 5, 2007
  • Post category:If You Are Having An Affair

Most likely if you are reading this you have been struggling with whether to tell your partner for a while. It’s natural to feel paralyzed, and unable to think deeply…

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Susan Berger

Marriage and Family Therapist

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